tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post2608809310433044253..comments2022-12-10T22:48:52.045+11:00Comments on Alice Jane in Newcastle: heading inexorably down a dark pathAlicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17938113045192081875noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-54413521397867340862014-11-20T15:41:37.979+11:002014-11-20T15:41:37.979+11:00Dear AJ, I am also a bh forum regular and had wond...Dear AJ, I am also a bh forum regular and had wondered where you had been. IHad just gone thru some older posts and saw a comment saying you weren't in a great space so. Here I am. I, like others, don't know what to say. I hope that since UR last post that U r feeling even a little lighter than you were. The only thing I can say is I do know and understand depression, and have been in the dark space and what I found it felt like I was hanging onto the side of a deep dark well hanging on just by my fingertips. And when UR in that place it's horrid. When I finally let go of the side and ended up down the dark hole I realised that I coukdnt go any lower and the only way was up. It was actually the best I had felt in a long time. Allowing to hit rock bottom only gave me the option of climbing back up, and it was way easier and less negative all consuming energy than holding on with my fingertips. <br />This may not make any sense to many or even you hun, but if it does I sure hope ur starting to see the light after hitting the bottom. I don't know much about gender issues but finding a great specialised dr sounds like exactly what you need. I'm so sorry to hear that you were unable to get to the bh event hun. Thinking of you and look forward to seeing you back in the forums soon. Hugs hun xxxxxxxHelenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07557715467076103264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-79543574555883924122014-10-19T21:30:07.992+11:002014-10-19T21:30:07.992+11:00I've been checking both posts for updates. I...I've been checking both posts for updates. I don't really know what to say either, I'm glad you checked in.<br />:) misfortune8https://www.blogger.com/profile/01235832121715101755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-985346796879665442014-10-19T12:39:44.370+11:002014-10-19T12:39:44.370+11:00I'm still here. My follow-up post explained a ...I'm still here. My follow-up post explained a lot more of where I'm at. I intended to post again by now but haven't yet worked out what I want to say.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17938113045192081875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-87424171346211521292014-10-19T02:48:12.291+11:002014-10-19T02:48:12.291+11:00Just checking in AJ - you OK?
If you don't wan...Just checking in AJ - you OK?<br />If you don't want to post, that's cool. Please just reply with a ♥ or something.misfortune8https://www.blogger.com/profile/01235832121715101755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-50915307945074884662014-10-13T01:35:22.047+11:002014-10-13T01:35:22.047+11:00You don't know me, I've never been here be...You don't know me, I've never been here before, I'm misfortune8 from beauty heaven - but I've only recently become an active participant. The 'lift esteem' thread mentioned you were in a bad way so I googled & found your blog. I'm not good with expressing feelings, but I wanted to say something. Just buggered if I know what though. There are people who care that you don't even know. I've lived with depression for a long time. I've been suicidal & there's no right words to say. I don't know your hell - you don't know mine. You've got people pulling for you. misfortune8https://www.blogger.com/profile/01235832121715101755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-68095477645528316012014-10-12T17:25:35.327+11:002014-10-12T17:25:35.327+11:00AJ hope you are alright. I don't know what e...AJ hope you are alright. I don't know what else to say . Please seek help dear. Moonlightsakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01227150938949988667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-2230595062736349862014-10-12T12:46:37.488+11:002014-10-12T12:46:37.488+11:00Me again. Alice, as others have said, there is hel...Me again. Alice, as others have said, there is help available. Go to your GP, it's the first step towards getting help. You aren't alone. There are plenty of people who care about you and want you to be okay xxxGlossQueen https://www.blogger.com/profile/06789891604897478651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-75173467328138005752014-10-12T10:32:58.482+11:002014-10-12T10:32:58.482+11:00Hi Alice Jane,
I'm also a BH member (I'm n...Hi Alice Jane,<br />I'm also a BH member (I'm not sure if you've noticed my posts). You recent blog post has made me a little worried and I just wanted to make sure that you're safe and well. Depression is so difficult to live with and it's always great to have support when dark times happen. Please reach out to those close to you for help or you can call Lifeline on 13 11 14. I really want to see you feel better and get back to wearing your lovely retro outfits.<br />From,<br />chunky.monkeys.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-12863797834769666332014-10-12T10:21:42.651+11:002014-10-12T10:21:42.651+11:00Oh Alice. This post really worries me. Does your w...Oh Alice. This post really worries me. Does your wife know how you are feeling? GlossQueen https://www.blogger.com/profile/06789891604897478651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-17936015129443726352014-10-12T09:46:47.021+11:002014-10-12T09:46:47.021+11:00Hi. Long time reader, first time commenting. Pleas...Hi. Long time reader, first time commenting. Please get help, Alice. Please don't give in to the dark thoughts and let them win. Where you are hurts, perhaps, hurts like Hell. It may not feel like it and you may doubt these words: you can beat this. Maybe not alone and maybe not for months, but it can be done. Life can seem impossible and all hope may seem gone, but that what depression does. It takes away all of our joy and leaves us as this empty breathing shell that looks like a person. You are still alive and, please believe me, that there is hope. <3Lynn Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00876715474502367377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726562196027210554.post-91600348665744566472014-10-12T09:38:39.866+11:002014-10-12T09:38:39.866+11:00Crikey AJ, I don't know what to say other than...Crikey AJ, I don't know what to say other than there MUST be a solution, it just hasn't presented itself yet. Sending you positive thoughts and hope that you can find someone qualified to help you with these dilemmas, because that's all they are - easy for me to say I know, but nothing is impossible to resolve, stay strong ♥katshepsutthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16942421302969504820noreply@blogger.com